It’s a quiet winter evening, and I find myself in a familiar ritual—kicking off my Timbs, those timeless “Buttas,” and sliding into my UGG slippers. Both pairs are wheat-colored, suede, and soft to the touch, but they carry two very different energies. As I make the transition, I’m struck by the contrast: the past meeting the present, city streets giving way to suburban comforts.
My Timbs have been with me for over 25 years, still holding strong. They’ve seen cracked sidewalks, snowy winters, and a younger version of me, hustling to find his place in the world. I was around my son’s age when I got them, probably still in high school. Now, he’s a high school senior, preparing to leave for college. The symmetry of it all isn’t lost on me. He’s grown up in the suburbs, a world of manicured lawns and cul-de-sacs. I grew up in the city, where the rhythm of life was faster, louder, and more unpredictable. Both worlds have their advantages, but they couldn’t be more different.
When I slide into my UGGs, it’s like sinking into a moment of peace. They represent where I am now: comfortable, stable, holding things down. But my Timbs—they’re something else entirely. When I put them on, I feel grounded, connected to the streets that shaped me, to the hip-hop beats that influenced my mindset. Timbs remind me to be true to myself, to own my story. They’re not just boots; they’re a reminder of who I was and who I continue to be.
Hip-hop has always been part of my foundation, a culture that teaches you to move with confidence and speak your truth. My Timbs are like a symbol of that. They’ve carried me through seasons, through challenges, and through growth. I hold on to them not just because they’re durable, but because they’re a piece of my identity. They’ve walked me into adulthood and now watch as I guide my son into his own.
The contrast between the Timbs and the UGGs isn’t just about footwear; it’s a reflection of life’s dualities. City and suburb. Past and present. Hustle and comfort. They coexist, much like the person I’ve become—someone who can navigate both worlds, appreciating their differences while staying true to his roots.
So as I take off one and slip into the other, I’m reminded of this balance. The Timbs remind me of where I come from, of resilience and authenticity. The UGGs remind me of where I am now, of gratitude and peace. Together, they tell the story of a journey, one that’s far from over.
And that’s something worth holding on to.
Well said, life is so much about duality and contrast.
“Suede Timbs on my feet to make my cypher complete,
At days end slide on the Ugg’s and sip on Nero’s Old Fashioned Clean & Neat”
WOW. This is so beautifully written and feels so genuine. This is such a beautiful connection/contrast. Too often in life we move forward and lose sight of our roots. Thank you for this.
I just wanted to take a moment to share how impressed I am with this writing. Your ability to express your thoughts so clearly and meaningfully is awesome. The depth of reflection you offered on how your Timps have supported you in your journey to uncover your true self and how you’re now standing firmly grounded is deep.
It’s not always easy to articulate such a personal and transformative experience, but you’ve done it with grace and authenticity. Your reflections show a profound sense of self-awareness and growth, and it’s evident how much thought and care you’ve poured into this process.
Thank you for sharing your journey. It’s not only a testament to your resilience but also a reminder of the importance of staying true to oneself.
This is a great read that I think many can connect with. The way this keeps you grounded in your roots and reminds you what help shape the magnificent individual you are today.